MotherFucker
Jun. 15th, 2008 12:35 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
sevendeadlyfunHere's a little trick question for all my quick-witted flisters:
When is another person's inappropriate behavior your fault?
When he's a married man hitting on you, of course. You can't expect a man to control his own cock, for pity's sake! When he pinches your ass, you're supposed to be mortally offended instead of tolerantly amused. If you're only amused, you're clearly an OMG HOR who doesn't respect his marriage.Nevermind that HE obviously doesn't respect his marriage. Not the fucking point, is it?
Your fault, after all, for having a pinchable ass. At least, that's what I was told. If you're an attractive woman and a married man hits on you, it's your fault and that's why his wife is treating you like shit. What do you expect, standing there being all amused and attractive and not offended? That he's going to behave like a responsible, married adult and keep his hands to himself?
NO! It's your job as a woman to behave in such way as to not tempt men. How dare you have a tongue ring IN PUBLIC! That's like begging for men to grope you.
And you can't blame his wife for not speaking up! She's intimidated by you and your ZOMG VISIBLE TATTOOS. You're just not "approachable" which apparently means fuck all plus who knows. If you were a real woman, you'd understand these things and stop insisting that people verbalize their boundaries. YOU should just KNOW their boundaries without being told. Not everyone can be all honest and shit. I mean, if they were, who would fulfill the dirty looks and whispers quota so vital for social exchanges?
Bitch.
Yes, this happened to me. Yes, the above writing is based on a conversation I had with a FRIEND who informed me that being reasonably attractive and personable was threatening. Also, not being offended by a man's juvenile ass pinch is "asking for it" and if I wasn't willing to change, I should just expect people to hate me. For, I suppose, cruelly forcing their husbands to grope me without my permission.
When is another person's inappropriate behavior your fault?
When he's a married man hitting on you, of course. You can't expect a man to control his own cock, for pity's sake! When he pinches your ass, you're supposed to be mortally offended instead of tolerantly amused. If you're only amused, you're clearly an OMG HOR who doesn't respect his marriage.
Your fault, after all, for having a pinchable ass. At least, that's what I was told. If you're an attractive woman and a married man hits on you, it's your fault and that's why his wife is treating you like shit. What do you expect, standing there being all amused and attractive and not offended? That he's going to behave like a responsible, married adult and keep his hands to himself?
NO! It's your job as a woman to behave in such way as to not tempt men. How dare you have a tongue ring IN PUBLIC! That's like begging for men to grope you.
And you can't blame his wife for not speaking up! She's intimidated by you and your ZOMG VISIBLE TATTOOS. You're just not "approachable" which apparently means fuck all plus who knows. If you were a real woman, you'd understand these things and stop insisting that people verbalize their boundaries. YOU should just KNOW their boundaries without being told. Not everyone can be all honest and shit. I mean, if they were, who would fulfill the dirty looks and whispers quota so vital for social exchanges?
Bitch.
Yes, this happened to me. Yes, the above writing is based on a conversation I had with a FRIEND who informed me that being reasonably attractive and personable was threatening. Also, not being offended by a man's juvenile ass pinch is "asking for it" and if I wasn't willing to change, I should just expect people to hate me. For, I suppose, cruelly forcing their husbands to grope me without my permission.