Oh the boy lovin' is on its way. Slowly but surely. I just can't seem to write it unless it fits the plot. And, for me personally, I think that Xander in the middle seasons (3-6) was definitely not a "jump into bed with a guy" character. Seasons 1-2, I think he would have just because hey, he's a horny teen-age boy and Season 7 and beyond, Xander was definitely going in the direction of rough trade. But in the middle, I think he would have needed adjustment time. So that's why so little of the fun...But soon!